I think some people need to learn what the real meaning of being friends is. Not the elementary school meaning of the word, which some people never grow out of but the ADULT meaning of being someone's friend.

I never thought I'd say this but now I realize why my mother made sure that I could stand on my own two feet and on my own and why she taught me to never really need others...it kills me how I give my all to every person that I call or have ever called a "friend" and in the end, I still feel alone.

Yes, I love to go out and have fun but that's not all of the time. I expect for REAL friends to understand when I'm tired and just wanna relax and NOT be given grief over it. I'm all for a few jokes here and there but there comes a point when it's considered going too far and some people don't understand that.


People that claim to be "best friends" didn't seem to catch on that after awhile the jokes weren't funny anymore but the minute my little sister saw my face she knew something was wrong....I told her what happened and even SHE couldn't get why they were acting like that...what does that say?

It's funny because there have been sooo many times when I haven't wanted to go out or even be bothered with them but I did it anyway. Wanna know why? because I was trying to be a good friend and this is what I get in return?

If that's the case, then I'd rather not have anymore close friends and just keep everyone as acquaintances and associates because obviously having friends hurts.

Quote of the Day

"If you're shy, get the hell over it:
You're slamming the door in your own face."

 
--Kimora Lee Simmons

Cutest Wedding Entrance!

I swear I am still, to this day, in ♥ with this video!
I'd love to do something like this or goofy for my wedding someday
.............
until then I'll just live vicariously through Jill and Kevin.

H*e Shit PSA

Being a hoe has never BEEN, is NOT and will never BE something to be proud of!

 

I swear fo' Jesus I've heard more than my share of h*e shit in the first few months of 2010 than I heard in all of 2009 and 2008 put together and that disturbs every little bone in my 5'0 130 lbs body *smdh*.

I thought most of these celebs would've learned to be more...select in who they did they dirt with after Superhead oh I'm sorry, I mean Karrine Steffans exposed their asses in her 1st two books but obviously not because who do we have now? Tiger Woods 3-pages of mistresses and Kat Stacks.

I am in no way saying hoeing is a good thing but dayum! at least Superhead* got paid for her hoe ways! She was able to at least take care of herself and her child but this basic bisch Kat Stacks? According to her blog, which I refuse to link!, she's done the down and dirty with Bow Wow(who no one has taken seriously since umm lemme think...ever!), Aaron Carter aka the little brother of Nick Carter(Backstreet Boys), Jae Millz and Lil Twist from Young Money, and Lil Za(?). lol no seriously wth is Lil Za? 

**note to self* time to learn these new artists**

Now I feel the need to say this: 
hoes need to be taken out back and put out of everyone's misery!
*shrugs*
Sorry if you don't like it, oh well that's me
#getthefuckoverit

I'm sure most of us have that one friend/associate that is a hoe. I mean we may try to clean it up or make it sound better than it is but screw that. If she's sleeping with married men, brothers, friends, cousins, godbrothers, anything along those lines...she's a hoe! I'm sorry but if you've slept with 2 or more family members or friends in the same group...you need to stitch your va-jay-jay(c) ->B.Scott<- up and find another purpose for your life because guess what dear?...you've just become a flipper.

If that was you're life's dream, then congratulations: you've succeeded.

It amazes me how some females can say with a straight face and a good heart that they're just doing what other females are doing. *side-eye* uh huh and if all of those other females were lining up to jump off the empire state building would you be right there with em?....if you have to hesitate and actually think about that, then do us both a favor and #killyourself right now. Thank you.

I understand that some people have had a hard childhood. No father, no mother, they were abused, etc etc but at some point in time we all have to decide what we want our lives to become. It's called personal responsibility: learn it, love it and live it 'kay? If you're gonna do h*e shit at least be smart enough to wear a gauddamn condom!!

*looks around and whispers*
I don't know if y'all have heard or not but there's this disease going around that kills
*screams*
it's called AIDS/HIV!!!

My Friends Are Hilarious

and it never fails that they give me one good laugh everyday! We have the type of friendship where we can all talk about each other all the time and no feelings get hurt in the end.

Sooo basically I was on facebook a little while ago and saw this as one of my friends status:

"what weighs 45 lbs wet and is hard as hell to see at night...I'll give you a hint: On Nutty Cuh!"

lmfao!! Basically she's talking about our other friend who is....very dark-skinned *I guess thats the nicest way to put it*

Even though it's damn near midnight, I am in here laughing my ass off at these fools. I just can't wait till he retaliates because I know he will and I KNOW it's gonna be good.

It's Been Awhile

since I've really wrote in my blog so I just thought I'd give you guys a quick update of what's been going on in my crazy world lol. 1)I'm in the process of trying to transfer to a 4-year university b/c I'm ready to get back into one. I've done the community college and no disrespect to anyone else but...it's not the place for me. It's not challenging me in any type of way and honestly I feel as if I'm back in high school. 2) Remember how great things were going between me and "Mr. Right"? Yeah well, things have been put on pause between us because we haven't really been in touch with each other like we used to be. 3) Two of my ex's have decided that they want to pop back into my life and try to throw me into a loop and they almost succeeded until I remembered why all of 3 of them BECAME ex's in the 1st place. 4) I started my job search...again so wish me luck on that please! 5) I'm enjoying being SINGLE!! I mean I have guys that I'm talking to and that I'm hanging with but at the end of the day, the only person I have to consider and worry about is me,myself and I and that is SUCH a refreshing feeling....well I guess that's about it for now lol.

Telephone {Official Video}

The genius that is Lady Gaga and Beyonce finally premiered last night and if anyone was in doubt before about Lady Gaga being a talent to be reckoned with, THIS showed them wrong. I just love everything "Bad bad Gaga" and "Honey Bey" are doing with this vid! Oh and how hawt are the cans as rollers in Gaga's hair?

"Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if its broke but you can still see the crack in that muthafucka's reflection"
--Lady Gaga & Honey Bey

Can Open Relationships Save Us?

Along with Angelina Jolie/Brad Pitt and Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith, Mo'Nique is the most recent celeb to admit that she and her husband have an "open marriage".

Which brings about my question: 

do open relationships make it easier for a couple to stay together?
 
In her interview Mo said that she would have no problem with her husband stepping outside of their marriage, even if it had been 20 times because that's not a deal breaker. And that she is very secure and comfortable in her marriage and her husband.

In an interview a few years ago, Will Smith was quoted as having said "If it came down to it, then one would say to the other: Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now, I'm not going to do it if you're uncomfortable with it." "In our marriage vows, we didn't say forsaking all others. We said you will never hear I did something afterwards."

I think we all read the interview with Angelina Jolie where she said that she doubts fidelity is absolutely necessary in order for a relationship to work and that neither her or Brad ever claimed that living together meant they were chained together. She also went on to say that they never restrict each other.


Now everyone else may be thinking that having an open relationship is wrong and not meant to happen because marriage is supposed to tie 2 people to each other and each other only BUT we all can't deny one thing: 

ALL of these couples are EXTREMELY happy with each other.

Personally, I see no reason why an open relationship would not be able to work out if both people in the relationship set down rules in the beginning and made sure that they were always followed.

I mean let's be honest, there is always going to be a chance that the person you're involved with is going to want to step out on you and even though they may resist at first, eventually...they may give in to that temptation. Wouldn't it be better if they told you about it and once you two set up ground rules, it happened and then was over?

If you still think no, can I ask a question:
How many marriages end because one partner was unfaithful and the other didn't find out until it was too late?

...

exactly.

Now I am in NO way saying that people in relationships should just start sleeping with other people just for the hell of it. What I am saying is that instead of criticizing and talking down about other people's decisions and choices maybe we should have an open mind.

I think the best blog I've read that talks about open relationships is from Jenn over at PrincessProse. Here's her blog about it: open relationships