Yeah sooo...it's 2011

yeah I know I'm late with this but hey *shrugs* when have I ever done anything when I'm supposed to? lol. Anyways!! for those who follow me (and read the posts lol) we all know 2010 was a crazy year for me: lost 3 cousins -->RIP to them all<--, ended 2 friendships (one which I thought would ever end) and found new ones. Overall I have to say 2010 was an okay year for me....yeah sure there's a few things I could have done differently but hey that's life *shrugs* and honestly I'm happy about everything that happened because all of it taught me a lesson. This year though: I'm focusing more on me and my needs and not everyone else's. This year has already started off to a good start for me and I plan on keeping it this way....*toasts* here's to hoping that I can get everything that I want out of this year and that all of you can as well.

F.Y.I.

there's nothing I hate more in this world than an insecure female.

 "A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. Jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity."

--Robert A. Heinlein 

Where DO I Stand?

I've fallen in ♥ with this song by Ashanti.

 

Just Like Glass...

 

"It's crazy how your best friend can downgrade to a a distant associate so quickly."

It took me sometime but I realized that everyone that may have been a GOOD friend to me wasn't exactly a BEST friend to me...I'm sorry but there is no way that as "best" friends I should have had to deal with someone's jealousy issues and insecurities since high school (and we became friends in 8th grade!) I would be lying if I said that there weren't a lot of good, no GREAT, times with our friendship but there were equally as mean HORRIBLE times. That friendship taught me a lot and for that I'll always cherish it and love it but the end of the friendship that everyone thought would last a lifetime just proves true the statement that not everything last forever.